Belcher encountered the book more than 20 years ago and “loved it,” she says, as it demonstrates the power of empathy and compassionate language. “[It] shows how to see beyond what people say to what people really mean, enabling us to see what’s beneath the words they speak so we get the full picture of what’s alive in them,” says Belcher. “In so doing, we choose compassionate language that heals and connects over life-alienating language that leads to hurt and pain.”

After using Marshall’s insights to great effect in her marriage, Belcher sought to share them with others through classrooms and workshops. To date, she has conducted more than 90 workshops and currently facilitates 12 practice groups, including those focused on married couples and individuals.

Belcher believes that the teachings she imparts in her workshops are essential for inspiring meaningful change in society as they encourage individuals to embrace vulnerability. “When people allow themselves to be vulnerable,” she says, “connections deepen and hearts open to one another.”

For more information, visit AtlantaCompassion.com/Events/, or email Belcher at [email protected].